Women have been sharing the “bonkers” method they swear makes men go gaga for them – but be warned, it’s not for the faint hearted.
I came across it recently after going down a deep TikTok rabbit hole. The other night I was two hours deep into a meaningless scroll when I realised my algorithm has turned a little twisted. If you want to make a guy obsessed with you, never be too available because guys naturally want something that’s not easy to get, so fake making plans. Oh, and be inconsistent, apparently guys love a chase, so if you act hot and then cold they will be constantly chasing the version of you that is super keen and they won’t get bored. Another dark femme TikTokker has a motto “hurt in silence, heal in silence”. Meaning you must come across as unbothered no matter how rubbish they treat you.